Saturday 5 April 2008

how to succeed a first date?

Although most people don’t admit it, going on that all important first date is much scarier than giving a public speech. So much so that there have been instances when people have backed out of them at the last minute. Well there are a few tips that can calm your nerves down and help you take on that first date with the gusto that you need to. We shall discuss them here: Don’t ever force the other person to like you. Affection and love are emotions that need to be felt spontaneously and should not be imposed. You maybe head over heels in love with the other person; but it is not always necessary that he/she has to fall in love with you right after the first date. Getting drunk on the first date is a really bad idea. Not only will you put the other person off, but you will create a bad impression on the people present in your surroundings as well. Talking about an ex boyfriend or an ex girlfriend on the first date is yet another turn off. It sends off signals that you are not really ready to move on and that is not the kind of impression you would want to create on the first date. Double dating the first time may seem like an excellent idea to some people. Truth is, double dating the first time takes away the whole point of going on a date in the first place. You are going on the date to get to know each other and not other people.

The important thing is not to worry about the consequences and to take each moment as it comes; because at the end of the road, the first date is what remains fresh in everyone’s mind.

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